Well, to be honest, the main headline for this part of the text is to be forgiving! But due to the possibility that many of the audience will skip it and not read it after reading the headline, I preferred to change the text.
One thing is clear in our relationships as humans: when someone behaves badly towards us, and in return, we show him bad behavior and, so to speak, leave his right in the palm of his hand, we feel strong. Maybe it can be called having fun; But let’s take a closer look at this feeling:
When we get what we want, which is revenge, it gives us a false sense of happiness. This feeling is sometimes so attractive that even to share it with others, we explain the matter to others and gain a greater sense of power; But a few questions:
Look at this sense a little better; Is this really what it feels like to be truly happy? Have you noticed that this feeling does not make us happy from the bottom of our hearts at all?!
And the second question: How did you feel those times when you were thinking of taking revenge? Sometimes this time lasts several days, months or even years. You yourself know better that the human feeling in this situation, whatever it is, is not a good and happy feeling.
Therefore, as one of the most key techniques for living happily, I must point to forgiveness. As long as you want to be upset with the earth and time and think about revenge, you will not experience the good and pleasant feeling of happiness as you should.
Look for change, if you are going to repeat the same routine all the time, how is your life going to change? It is very difficult. Instead, push yourself to overcome your fears and embrace life with passion. Try “acting differently” to see what it feels like and make your brain more flexible.
To maintain your happiness, you need to get out of your comfort zone and diversify your happiness plan in life.